3 Things To Release So That You Can Step More Easily Into A Wealthy, Successful Life
We all walk around with a great deal of baggage – Some have more than others. What is your baggage like? Do you wear it like a badge? Or are you continually trying to get rid of it? Your baggage may come from previous dealings with people, dreams not realised, hopes that never quite came to fruition, whatever. This baggage holds you back from fully realising what you are here to do and what you want to do.
Here are a few areas to consider and release
Relationships that hold you back – False Loyalty
Some relationships are horrid and the problem for you is that you feel loyal to the people and to the relationship. It may be parents, siblings, friends, partners – people who are supposed to care for you and people who you definitely feel loyal towards and also people that you care for. You do not want to hurt them but they have a particular definition of who you are that is stifling and they refuse to let you part from it. They may even mean well when they keep trying to keep you committed to an old version of you.
They may undermine your every attempt to become more than what they think they know you to be. They may try to save you from the darkness that sometimes precedes the breakthrough. But all this ‘help’ simply takes you off path and causes you not to reach your goals. At some point, you are going to have to release the intense emotions around these relationships so that you can go after what you want. You may even need to release the whole relationship and not see the person for a season until you get solidly fixed in the new person you choose to be – the person who gets results as desired. Are you willing to do that?
It is hard for women to come to this decision but sometimes, it is absolutely necessary.
Careers That Hold You Back, Thinking There Is Only One Way To Make Money
You may need to release your attachment to your old career or business in order to step into a new thing. This may not mean giving it up completely yet as I am aware you still have responsibilities. But it does mean being willing to. If you are attached to some old definition of how you must make money, how then will you step into the new. You are too full up o the old thing to have space for the new thing.
This one can be hard to do because you are possibly making money doing what you are doing right now and to let it go, just like that can be very scary. Start to see it as something that funds your real dream, not the end of all dreams.
Start to see it as something you are choosing to transition out of, rather than seeing it as something you are stuck with.
It is your choice! If you keep seeing your career or old business as the only way you can make money then you will never completely give yourself to something new and so you will not get something new.
Past stories that hold you back – If It Happened Before, It Has To Happen Again
It is so easy to get trapped into thinking that the past is a good indicator of the future and I suppose if you are in stocks and shares, that is usually what is used to predict what will happen in the marketplace. And needless to say, sometimes, those predictions are VERY WRONG! Because the past is simply not an indicator of the future. You make the assumption that everything will stay the same and I suppose that if you are talking about your own life then you can force things to stay stagnant and refuse to change at all. IN which case, yes, you will keep getting what you have always got but you need to realise that you do have a choice! You are not set in stone. You can change, if you choose to!
DO YOU CHOOSE TO?
Your past stories of hurt are not a great place to begin building a new life and business from! they simply are not. You end up reacting to everything in the worst possible way! You react to everything from a place of fear and uncertainty and that definitely makes your actions pretty terrible.
Release the past stories – Just because you were depressed in the past does not mean you need to keep acting as though depression can come get you at any moment. Just because you made a business mistake at some point in the past does not mean you are going to make the same mistake again. Can you see that when you live as though it is a done deal that you will make the same mistakes then you make it incredibly hard for you to win?
Release the past!
These are 3 key areas to release.
Will you do it so that you can step into a more fulfilling experience of life and build a more profitable business?
Rosemary Nonny Knight was once a pharmacist and then decided to create a profitable business doing what she loves which enabled her to leave work. She also teaches other professionals and business owners to make the same shift.
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