This week I will be celebrating my 10thWedding Anniversary. Traditionally there are gifts associated with each anniversary, but if you investigated further, there are often many different meanings – in terms of traditional or modern, and various cultures.
Not only are there traditional gifts such as paper, tin and china, but there are also flower associations with each year; for example – the tenth year would be the gift of tin, or in terms of flower associations, it would be daffodils. I knew I should have got married in the spring! Oh well, silk daffodils will have to do I suppose, or if I’m really lucky girl, I may get a tin of my favourite biscuits too – gluten free of course!
I have noticed over the years that wedding anniversaries don’t tend to be observed that much anymore, unless it’s a Silver, Pearl, Ruby, Gold, or if you manage to make it – Diamond! Most of our friends tend to send us text messages to say congratulations, if they remember. Times are changing, and as weddings are becoming less popular, and there are more pressures on family life, there are many painful associations with weddings and marriages, so it’s hardly surprising that anniversaries are not celebrated much any more.
As you know – I am the flower card girl, so I tend to send friends and family wedding anniversary cards, as I like to remember their special day with them, and I love making special cards for my customers.
If you have a friend or family member who has a wedding anniversary approaching, and you would like to celebrate with them, here is a floral list of anniversaries to give you some ideas (or secretly leave lying around for your partner).
1st – Pansy or carnations
2nd – Cosmos
3rd – Sunflowers
4th – Geranium or hydrangea
5th – Daises
6th – Calla Lilies
7th – Freesia
8th – Clematis or lilac
9th – Poppy
10th – Daffodil
11th – Tulip
12th – Peony
13th – Chrysanthemum
14th – Dahlia
15th – Rose
20th – Day lily
25th – Iris
28th – Orchid
30th – Sweetpea
40th – Nasturtium
50th – Violets
Just think when you reached your 50th, you could just have a massive bouquet with all the flowers listed above, reminding you of your special years together!
Have you received a special wedding anniversary gift?
My special gift is that I can’t believe how lucky I am to have Matt in my life – I am very blessed. Thanks for everything Matt – I love you to the moon and back xx
Anita Hunt
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Hi Anita,
I’ve been trying hard to think of a perfect 40th wedding anniversary gift for someone – I think maybe a big bunch of nasturtiums won’t quite do it
How lovely that you already have your perfect wedding anniversary gift in Matt 
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Oh, and HAPPY ANNIVERSARY to you both! I hope you have a lovely week.
Hi Angela, many thanks for your comments and lovely good wishes
Yes, a bunch of nasturtiums might not have the impact required for a 40th anniversary – maybe a vase with nasturtium details…
Happy Anniversary, Anita!
That 2nd one – Chocolate Cosmos, surely… One of my favourites.
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Hi Babs – thanks for the kind good wishes
Chocolate cosmos – lovely
Happy Anniversary Anita!
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Thank you Ida
Happy Anniversary
I have never been one to celebrate anniversaries, but ten years is a landmark. Congratulations to you both.
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Thanks Sarah